I have gotten to the part on the girlfriend shrug where I need to sew up the arms...What is the best way to handle the seams so that they hold and look nice....I can't machine stitch them but there has to be a better way...Thanks for any help.
I like using the mattress stitch for sewing up garments. Here's a great resource for finishing techniques. Seaming starts in chapter 17. http://www.studioknits.com/booktoc.htm
Yes, definitely mattress stitch. There's a nice tutorial on this in one of the back issues of Knitty; check the archive page, under "Techniques with Teresa".